My wife is pregnant with another man's (who was a close friend growing up) baby?

I'm 5'7" with blond hair. My wife was 5'2" also blond. We have 2 boys. The older one is 6'5" dark brown hair, the "lousy little one" is 6'2", black hair and looks like a mountain man. They were both adopted as babies. They are also both my sons. Don't worry about your child not looking like you. It may look like your wife. And as far as feeling like it is yours I have never felt like my boys were not mine. Do you know why parents love their babies? Because that child is completely dependent on them for everything. Two months of feeding, bathing, changing diapers, walking the floor when they are ill you will love that child so much the fact that you are not the birth father will not a difference. If you and your wife can work through this together I can't imagine that anything else could come between you.